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Why Your Car Accident Lawyer Isn't Returning Calls

You haven't heard from your lawyer in weeks. Your calls go to voicemail. You're starting to wonder if they even remember your name. We hear this constantly, and your frustration is completely valid.

The Honest Explanation

Many personal injury attorneys carry large caseloads. Day-to-day communication on routine matters is often handled by paralegals or legal assistants, not the named attorney. During active treatment there is frequently a genuine lull where little legal action happens because everyone is waiting for treatment to stabilize. In many situations, no news is the update. That still does not excuse a firm that ignores direct requests for status.

What You Can Do Right Now

  • Send a written request (email or letter) asking for a specific case status update within 5 business days.
  • Ask your lawyer to agree to a communication schedule, such as a monthly status email even when nothing has changed.
  • Request that any paralegal or assistant handling your file introduce themselves so you know who to contact.
  • Know the difference between normal silence (treatment phase, waiting on records) and red flags (missed deadlines, no response to written requests for weeks, staff turnover without notice).

Understanding Lawyer Caseloads and Staffing

A solo personal injury attorney or small firm may handle dozens of cases simultaneously, and some high-volume firms assign even more per attorney. This does not excuse poor communication, but it helps explain why cases nearest trial or settlement deadlines often get priority attention.

Most firms delegate routine communication to paralegals, case managers, or legal assistants. This is actually standard practice and not necessarily a sign that your case is being neglected. The attorney reviews strategy and makes key decisions, while support staff handles records collection, scheduling, and status inquiries. If you have never spoken to the attorney directly, that may be normal depending on your case stage. But if you have specifically asked to speak with the attorney and been denied repeatedly, that is a different situation.

The Communication Dead Zone During Treatment

There is a period in almost every car accident case, typically lasting 3 to 9 months, where very little legal action is happening. Your lawyer is waiting for you to complete medical treatment so they can calculate the full value of your claim. During this period, the honest update is often: "We are waiting for you to finish treatment and for all medical records to come in." Some firms communicate this proactively. Many do not, and that gap creates anxiety.

This dead zone can be strategically important. Filing a demand or entering negotiations before treatment is complete often results in a lower settlement because the full extent of injuries is not yet documented. A lawyer who rushes this phase to create movement may be hurting case value. Patience during treatment often leads to stronger documentation.

Red Flags vs Normal Silence

Normal silence looks like: no updates during active treatment, brief periods between case milestones, or your paralegal responding instead of the attorney. These situations, while frustrating, are generally not cause for alarm. A well-run firm will still respond to direct inquiries within a few business days, even if the answer is simply that nothing new has happened.

Genuine red flags include: no response to written communication for more than two weeks, missed court deadlines or statute of limitations concerns, the attorney or key staff leaving the firm without notification, being unable to reach anyone at the firm by any method, or discovering that your case file has not been worked on at all. If you experience any of these, it may be time to consult another attorney about your options.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How often should my lawyer contact me with updates?
There is no legal requirement for a specific communication frequency, but a reasonable expectation is a substantive update at least once per month, even if that update is simply confirming that treatment is ongoing and no legal action is needed yet. Many attorneys will agree to a monthly email cadence if you ask for it directly.
Is it normal to only talk to a paralegal and never the attorney?
During routine phases of your case, yes. Paralegals handle most day-to-day communication in personal injury firms. However, you should be able to speak with the actual attorney for strategy discussions, settlement decisions, and any time you have concerns about how your case is being handled. If the attorney refuses all direct contact, that is a concern.
Should I fire my lawyer just because they are slow to respond?
Not necessarily. Before making that decision, send a written communication clearly stating your concerns and requesting a response within a specific timeframe. Many communication breakdowns can be resolved with a direct conversation. Switching attorneys mid-case has real costs and delays, so it should be a last resort after you have made genuine attempts to fix the communication issue.
Can I call the Colorado Bar Association if my lawyer will not respond?
Yes. The Colorado Supreme Court Office of Attorney Regulation Counsel handles complaints about attorney conduct, including failure to communicate. Filing a complaint is a serious step and is typically appropriate only after you have exhausted other options, but it is your right as a client.

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